Identifying a Young Carer in school Signs which may indicate that a child is caring for someone at home may include: Arriving late at schoolMissing days at schoolTirednessHungerClothing or appearance may not be clean or tidyUnderachievementUnable to complete home work on timeWithdrawn, over sensitive, low self esteemBehavioural problemsDifficulties with peer group, limited social skillsIsolation, embarrassed to take friends homeNot attending after school activities or activities in local areaNon attendance on school trips, particularly residentialBeing bulliedFinancial difficultiesPhysical problems, such as back pain from liftingFalse signs of maturity, from assuming adult rolesParents may have little or no contact with school, be unable to attend parents evenings, review days, or social activities.